Archive for July, 2009



22
Jul

A Vibrant, Daily Journey With God

Happy Wednesday!

We’re getting ready to overhaul the blog site and we’re looking for some creative input from you guys!

  • Layout: have you seen another blog site layout that WOW’s you away? Please tell us about it!
  • Video: would you like for us to start adding video content? If so, how often would you prefer video verses text?
  • Content: are there certain topics you need to read about over others? What kinds of things would you like for me to talk about?
  • Length: shorter? longer? how much longer or shorter?
  • Photography: more photo’s? less photo’s? more personal photgraphy? less? larger photo’s? smaller photo’s?
  • Interaction: how often would you like to see me commenting? more? less?
  • Journaling: are you hoping for more personal content? less?
  • Biblical Message: more bible references? less?
  • Focus: what do you see as the FOCUS of this blog site? If we wanted to make the site more SPECIFIC, how would you describe that?

As you can imagine… blogging EVERY DAY takes a very large chunk of time out of my morning routine. It’s my pleasure… AS LONG AS IT CONTINUES TO BECOME MORE AND MORE EFFECTIVE… as long as my writings ADD TREMENDOUS VALUE to your amazing lives.

Please share your ideas with us… ANYTHING else we can do to INCREASE our effectiveness… and INFLUENCE more people throughout the world. Your creative input is so much appreciated… thanks for interacting with us to make this outreach the best it can be!

Spiritual thought for the day…

Genesis 5:21-24 When Enoch had lived 65 years, he became the father of Methuselah. And after he became the father of Methuselah, ENOCH WALKED WITH GOD 300 years and had other sons and daughters. Altogether, Enoch lived 365 years. ENOCH WALKED WITH GOD; then he was no more, because God took him away.

Walking with God is not as hard to do as one would assume. Have you ever been IN LOVE before?

When we are LOVE STRUCK, all we can think about is that special someone! Well, the concept of WALKING WITH GOD is just the same… to throw our HEARTS at him… and FALL for him… and be conscious of him… all day long.

Take a few minutes before your day becomes too complicated… communicate with God… focus on his amazingness… read about him in the Bible… decide to GIVE him QUALITY TIME in your world today!

Enoch WALKED WITH GOD… and then he was no more (in the earth), because God took him away! I want to be like this man… walking so CLOSE to God… until the veil between time and eternity becomes THINNER and THINNER… and one day, I am TAKEN AWAY.

Please, dont forget to leave you comments about enhancing the blog site… and talk about this spiritual thought of the day. Tell us about your WALK with God? How is it UNIQUELY VIBRANT and NEW EVERY DAY?

Have a super day everyone!

21
Jul

Synergizing 4 Tomorrows Better World

Happy Tuesday!

Had a nice vacation… and then a nice day off from blogging yesterday. Back to WORK today for little Chucky! We’ll not really… I’m driving to Richmond right after posting this blog to visit my Father in law in the hospital… he’s such a super guy, having a bad few days. Merle has tremendous FAITH and I’m certain he will come through this all right! Thanks for the prayers.

Gonna return calls on the road and multitask as much as possible. Thank God for the AMAZING leadership team we have in our ministry… that so much takes place even while I am out of the office. Being out these past two weeks has shown me the POWER and POTENTIAL of a dream team! One person can only do a few things alone… but when one person is a tiny part of a larger whole, he can create tomorrows better world!

Tomorrows world needs to be CREATED ON PURPOSE. We should not leave her to time and chance. Evil prevails ONLY when GOOD people do nothing. Therefore, we should DO SOMETHING… lots and lots of SOMETHINGS to shape tomorrow!

To best create change… measurable change, we need to work well together in one common purpose. This means that we POOL our time, talents, and resources into ONE PLACE for LARGE SCALE PURPOSES. We assemble around a daring dream… and we aim in a common direction.

This is true of businesses, ministries, families, and even nations. United we stand, divided we fall. The limitless power of ONE COMMON PURPOSE is epic beyond comprehension!

My role in this whole picture is three fold.

  1. Be the very best player for my team… to contribute my personal BEST to something MUCH BIGGER THAN MYSELF.
  2. To COACH well, lead my team in BOLD AND DARING directions, and carry out mandates that matter in the face of eternity.
  3. Be an encourager of other teams and other coaches… to support everyone else aiming to create tomorrows better world.

In ministry, we know that all the little ministry teams belong to Christ, who is the head of his worldwide church. Even though we have so many varying ideas about how we should go about creating change… we are working for a common eternal purpose and that unites us.

This is why I want to be encourager to other coaches and other teams… as much as possible. Sometimes, this is not easy… and so I pray for the GRACE to see beyond the things that divide us, so that I can fully appreciate the things that UNITE us.

I appreciate everyone who appreciates my coaching and my playing. I thank God for my encouragers… for the synergy I draw from other coaches and other players. I thank God for people like Pastor Chris & Sara Whetzel of Believers Victory Center in Moorefield West Virginia… what a coach and what a team! For my dear friend Pastor Bruce Hankee of Greenmont Fellowship, right here in my home county. I am privileged to exchange encouragement with these and so many other GREAT coaches and GREAT teams scattered throughout the earth! We are better together than we could ever be alone!

My team is an AMAZING team! I’m talking about the tribe I’m leading, the team I’m personally coaching! It’s GROWING every day… even every HOUR these days… and thanks to the internet, there are no bounds… there are no limits to HOW EFFECTIVE this team can become! I thank God for the BEAUTIFUL people at Destiny Family Center… and for all the other beautiful people connected to this team through the blog, twitter, and facebook. Let’s keep GROWING… and together we will achieve MEASURABLE levels of change!

If you have a specific talent you would like to dedicate to this tribe… please let us know! Right now, we’re looking for help in graphic design, web development, web broadcasting, social networking expansion, and… oh, finances of course!

I pray that today’s blog adds tremendous value to your amazing lives! Spend some time meditating on YOUR CONTRIBUTION to the team of teams you’re connected with. How can you become a more significant player in the dream of creating a better tomorrow?

Have a super day everyone!

20
Jul

Celebrating 250 Consecutive Daily Blogs

Happy Monday!

After 250 consecutive daily posts, I’m taking ONE day off from blogging… have a fun day everyone! Follow me on Twitter

Your pal, 

Chuck

19
Jul

A Mutual Exchange of Encouragement

Happy Sunday!

We’re back home and real happy about church at Destiny Family Center this morning! Wow, I have really missed everyone! (photo: Mr. Peelz says goodbye to the beach) 

Todays message is sure to ENCOURAGE and INSPIRE… gonna continue the message I started a few weeks ago: I Still Have a Dream Today!   

More than the message, is the LOVE and FAITH I feel in my heart this morning… it’s so large! I just want to HUG everyone, and let them know how much I appreciate journeying with them!

Romans 1:10-12 One of the things I always pray for is the opportunity, God willing, to come at last to SEE YOU. For I long to VISIT YOU so I can BRING YOU some spiritual gift that will HELP YOU grow strong in the Lord. WHEN WE GET TOGETHER, I want to encourage you in your faith, but I also want to be encouraged by yours.

This is how I feel today… like having a MUTUAL EXCHANGE of ENCOURAGEMENT! 

I LOVE the people I lead at church and over the internet. My family SINCERELY LOVES the people we do life with. We thank God for all the beautiful people here in our hometown and scattered throughout the world who value our leadership… for the people who admire and share our BIG DREAMS… for all the Joshua’s and Caleb’s who without hesitation, they run to the promises with FAITH in every step!

Numbers 13:30 But Caleb tried to quiet the people as they stood before Moses. “Let’s go at once to take the land,” he said. “We can certainly conquer it!”  

Yes we can! Yes we are! Yes we will! 

I hope todays blog rouses up some FAITH in you guys today! Maybe you’re down at the moment… but this is only TEMPORARY… because you and I were BORN TO TAST THE GRAPES OF PROMISE! We’re doing something historical with our lives… yes we are! 

Please click on to the 10am broadcast… leave your comments… and have a super duper Sunday!

18
Jul

Moments & Memories

Happy Saturday!

Vacation is over… we head for home sweet home once the family wakes up. I’m kind of sad… love the beach and love the quality time with my family. The time has gone by so fast and my kids are growing up so fast. I just hope we’re able to continue this tradition as Coree and Heaven launch out to start their own families. (not for a few more years of course)

Last night, Coree and I went to the turtle lake just before dark. We fed the turtles one last time… had just as much fun as we did 15 years ago when he was 3. And of course you know Coree by now… he had us both pick one up! (photo) It was a great memory!

Coree asked to read my blog from yesterday on the ride home… the blog about himself… he laughed at the part when I talked about trading my iphone for his Spiderman camera. We had a few REALLY good chats on this trip… I cherish that!

Life is about memories… it’s measured in moments. We need to recognize those moments… and turn them into memories!

I believe it’s Leonard Ravenhill who once said, “The opportunity of a Lifetime must be seized in the lifetime of the opportunity!”

In everyday life, there are MOMENTS… everyday, there are OPPORTUNE MOMENTS waiting to be SEIZED… waiting to be TURNED INTO MEMORIES!

So we need to pay attention to our everyday lives… and live adventurously… be fearless… willing to take risks… vulnerable… transparent… creative.

I wonder: what kind of MEMORY can come out of this beautiful Saturday for you? Instead of lying around the house complaining that there is nothing to do… or lowering expectations because you have to work today… SIZE UP THE MOMENT WITH EYES OF FAITH. See what you haven’t seen before… right there in the same routine… there is a MEMORY waiting to happen!

I pray that today’s short blog triggers a future MEMORY for you guys! Even though we are TRAVELING home from vacation… I’m looking for our moment… or moments! I’m ready to make this day ONE FOR THE RECORDS!

Oh… and guess what?! I am speaking at Destiny Family Center tomorrow morning… if you can’t drive, fly, or walk… watch it online @ 10am! Please leave your comments… and have a memorable day!

17
Jul

Coree-izing Your Life!

Happy Friday!

As this afternoon begins the weekend for most of you guys, it begins the ending of our very blessed vacation. I have the best mother and father in laws… our time here on Hatteras Island with them has been something to be cherished… as it is every year!

I’m very excited about getting back to home sweet home! Can’t wait to see my family and all my beautiful friends at Destiny Family Center… and bring them some of the victory I received these past two weeks.

Last night, we stopped into the arcade at the old Buxton Drive In and played the stacker machine a few more times… trying to win a Spider Man digital camera Coree wanted! His enthusiasm for this prize, at the age of 18… it was HILLARIOUS! Thanks to Elizabeth and her arcade mastery, Coree walked out of that place with a STRUT!

They were even singing songs about the spider man digital camera on the suburban ride back to the cottage… PASSIONATE SONGS! If last night had been karaoke night at the Froggy Dog, they would have taken their song to the masses!

The ENERGY from those few hours was something to LEARN FROM!

This is one of the mysteries of my son… his ability to turn a $19 digital camera into a mega TREASURE that EVERYONE ELSE DESIRES!

I’m telling you guys… we we’re swept into Coree’s EXCITEMENT… laughing hysterically… our creative forces were DANGEROUS! I was SO IN LOVE WITH HIS PRIZE that I almost decided to trade my IPHONE for his SPIDEY CAMERA!

Coree has a UNIQUE gift for turning every day moments into ONCE IN A LIFETIME memories! I’ve never seen anything like it! Every day is a vacation in Coree’s world!

COREE-IZING YOUR LIFE:

One of my goals for the next few months is to COREE-IZE my life! I’m going to try my hardest to see my world through his eyes. The goal is to take what’s COMMON and make it RARE! I want to make significant adjustments with my life, ministry, and schedule… adjustments that will give me the kind of life I don’t need to escape from.

Somehow I believe there is a way for all of us up the preciousness of our everyday lives! Then we wont be so DESPERATE for our vacations… and so depressed when they are almost over!

So, what do you say? Ready to COREE-IZE your life too? Hey, if you need some help… I’m sure Coree is willing to help for the right price! Maybe Coree should become a consultant! He could become a CREATIVITY GURU! Now, that’s an IDEA!

Ok… I better log off and pray over some of this before my family wakes up. Last vacation day… lots to do! Please leave your comments EVERYONE…

Let me leave you with a video of Coree and his friend Cole Moore on their suped up shopping carts! See what I mean!!

16
Jul

This Developing Tribe

Happy Thursday!

Went back to Ocracoke yesterday… all four of us surfed for a few hours… had a blast! Emily was smiling BIG on her new surf board… kept asking me, “Charlie… did you see me on that wave!” Her excitement and her smiley face… priceless! 

I wish you guys could have seen the SCHOOLS of fish going up and down the break… there were so many fish, the clear water turned black like there was an infestation of seaweed. The fish were JUMPING out of the water… hundreds of them. This happened every ten minutes for the entire time we surfed! 

Only two days of vacation left… gonna make them GREAT… then back to my amazing hometown!

For todays message, I’m posting a follow-up to yesterdays blog and the comments it provoked. 

“Thanks for the encouragement Tammy… I’m really missing everyone back home… only two vacation days left… looking forward to Destiny Family Center on Sunday!

Randy, I’ve been thinking about your comments on shepherding… and I love Tammy’s reference with David and King Saul. So often, previous generations LOAD US DOWN with whatever worked for them… and it doesn’t work for us.

I like Tammy’s phrase… ‘same office, different assignment’. It helps to explain what I was getting at in yesterdays blog… not questioning my office… just the SPECIFICS of MY assignment… and the assignment of THIS developing tribe.

From my studies of five fold ministry (Ephesians 4 Apostle, Prophet, Evangelist, Pastor and Teacher)… clearly, there were Prophet/Pastors, Pastor/Evangelists, Pastor/Apostles… and so on.

God most definitely combines spiritual gifts and ministry offices for specific eternal purposes. God gives us what we need to carry out our specific assignments. And if we get stuck in the rut of fighting our giants within the DEFINITIONS of one TITLE instead of following the specific vision God places in our heart… we may end up losing the epic battle of our generation.

I’m not asking God IF I’m called to shepherd or IF I’m called to carry out the great commission… thats a given. When Jesus launched the church… he incited a movement… over the years, the church has turned his MOVEMENT into a RELIGION.

I’m asking God to use me and my friends to turn our RELIGION into a MOVEMENT again! This requires new vision… clear vision… a biblical manifesto for this modern generation.

Whereas, this movement is about so much more than ME… it includes me… and I’m talking to God about the part he wants ME to play… as the Pastor of Destiny Family Center… and as a husband, father, blogger, writer, conference speaker, etc.

Hopefully, my transparency in these two blogs will inspire others to do the same with their own lives… and together, we will progress beyond a general life purpose to one that is far more SPECIFIC. And maybe… just maybe… we will incite a legendary movement together!”

Thanks again for your comments… hopefully, I’ve better clarified my current pursuit. You guys are amazing… love you all!

15
Jul

What Kind of Change Am I Supposed to Bring?

Happy Wednesday!

No waves yesterday… ocean was FLAT. Beautiful for swimmers and readers… so we went with it… and had another amazing day!

I pulled out our Waboba Extreme: the amazing ball the bounces on water! We had lots of fun… it really works! Every beach bum needs a Waboba Extreme!

It was all fun and games UNTIL some lady almost lost her EAR! Yup, Coree was throwing back to me from about forty yards… and since my last aggressive throw to him, some lady had INTRUDED in to my personal space… I mean there’s a big ocean out there, what was she thinking!

To tell it from Coree’s words, “I don’t know what happened dad… I turned and glanced your way… saw the lady and thought: oh no, I better wait for her to move… and somehow I lost command of my arm… it took over my body and bypassed my brain… my arm did what it wanted… and I couldn’t do anything to stop myself… next thing you know… the ball was bouncing across the water at like 75 miles an hour STRAIGHT FOR THAT LADY’S EAR!”

A direct hit… and a most DRAMATIC OVEREACTION! She went crazy… we apologized a few times, felt bad at first… ended up happy for the accident… I really think she needed this! lol

On the spiritual side…

The kids left the beach early yesterday, leaving Emily, Merle, Mille, and me to RELAX for a few hours. I took a nap… woke up with a serious crick in my neck… read for about two hours… got inspired… climbed to my feet… put on my iphone ear phones… turned on some really good worship music… walked the shore and TALKED TO GOD.

That hour seemed to kick off the profound spiritual breakthrough I had been hoping for this vacation. It felt as if God rode his Imperial space limousine to the Frisco Beach and walked that seashore with me!

I didn’t ramble on as I usually do in prayer… I just ASKED A SERIES OF QUESTIONS. Not just any questions… the PERFECT questions!

For the past 7 years, I have been doing everything I can to keep people from forcing me into a management role… to keep circumstances from normalizing me… to dodge the status quo tranquilizer darts coming at me every day!

I’m called to LEAD… called to cast a vision… to build a tribe of millions… and incite a movement! I’m not called to MANAGE… not interested in turning DOWN my fire or my VOICE… not looking to blend in or fade away! There is something IN ME that’s bent on BRINGING CHANGE.

The question I asked God is this: Specifically, what kind of change do you want me to bring this world? What am I suppose to give my TRIBE that someone else isn’t already giving? What am I rallying my TRIBE around?

Yes, I know… that in a world filled with so many NEW RELIGIONS… I am called to LEAD PEOPLE TO JESUS CHRIST! Yes, I know that I’m called to AWAKEN a LARGE SECTION of the worldwide CHURCH… and provoke a non-religious, mainstream curiosity for a deeper experience with God’s Spirit. That I am called to EMPOWER the amazing people in my growing circle! But how? Specifically how??

When I traveled around the world ten years ago… I knew what my mission was. I was STIRRING people… I was bringing SPIRITUAL EXCITEMENT… I was awakening Pastors and worship leaders and business people… and Christians of all sorts! I was leading thousands to Christ and helping them to LIVE FOR CHRIST without reservation! There was no question… when I came into town; I brought FIRE… and CHANGE CAME TO EVERYONE!

For some strange reason… people believe that in order to Pastor a church, one must kill all such passions… that one is no longer allowed to think change or BRING CHANGE… that PASTORS are called to MANAGE instead of LEAD. There is a difference… and I have seen the light!

I believe that I am called to Pastor, and write books, and blog, and tweet, and build a global media outreach… at the head of a LEGENDARY TRIBE wrapped around a worthwhile mission… I am called to birth and LEAD a movement. And as my questions are answered, this calling will become far more specific… thus far more attractive… and far more beneficial to everyone else!

I hope today’s blog adds tremendous value to your amazing lives. You matter to me… you really matter! Today, more than ever before… I want to EMPOWER and LEAD… so thanks for appreciating my contributions! Thanks for appreciating this tribe! I love you guys and pray so often for you! Please leave your comments… and have a super day!

14
Jul

Rainy Day Adventures!

Happy Tuesday!

What a yesterday that was… a rainy day in Ocracoke turned into our best day at the beach so far. We just wouldn’t quit… we were out for memories, refusing to get back on that ferry without them!

We ate lunch at some nifty neato pavilion style café… delicious! Found a map of the island… and explored the roads we have never been on. We went to shops we had never heard of… EVEN ATE CRICKETS! Yes, real crickets… all five of us! (photo)

I was the last to go, whining like a little girl as the golden brown insect landed onto the surface of my petrified tongue. In half a second, the little fellow was expeditiously transported over to my right chompers section… and CRUNCH, CRUNCH, CRUNCH… swallow!

The worse part of the experience for me were those few lingering legs that failed to go down on the first few swallows… and the EYE BALL I pulled up with the tip of my tongue… they were lodged in between my cheek and jaw. But hey, we’re the coolest parents EVER according to our kids! lol

We went to a very fun candy store called Candyland… it was a kids paradise… a chucky paradise too! (photo)

After all the shopping, we headed for the beach IN THE RAIN… got to the beach, and the rain had stopped! Coree, Heaven, and I surfed for a few hours while Elizabeth and Emily shell shopped along the shore.

All three of us caught MANY NICE WAVES… and didn’t stop till way past shark feeding time. A couple beside us claimed they saw a fin… said it was like 4 feet wide and 3 feet high! (yeah right!) So we kept surfing, even though shivers went down our spines ever time a piece of seaweed drifted into our legs!

After surfing, we joined the shell-shopping excursion… and together we found TEN SAND DOLLARS… Emily was the winner with SIX… I found TWO… Heaven and Elizabeth found ONE each… Coree found ZERO but he was HAPPY for the rest of us!

My inspiration message:

Your best vacation day EVER can come on a RAINY DAY! So when the storm clouds gather, and you’re not able to do stay on ROUTINE… look for map a MAP! Journey out beyond the well-beaten path, to the PLACES YOU’VE NEVER BEEN BEFORE!

Maybe there’s a life lesson here. Maybe, so many of life’s real TREASURES are found on the DETOURS. Maybe the storms come to force us OFF routine… to prod us onto a NEW ADVENTURE!

So instead of complaining about detours, we should LOOK FOR THE ADVENTURE… refusing to experience anything less than the TIME OF OUR LIVES!

Romans 8:28 And we know that God causes EVERYTHING to work together for the good of those who love God and are called according to his purpose for them!

I hope today’s blog adds tremendous value to your amazing lives! Please leave your comments and have a super day! Ohh… and don’t forget to follow our vacation on twitter and facebook! God bless you all!

13
Jul

Let’s Break the Comment Record… Today!

Happy Monday!

Instead of the inspiration coming from ME today… I’m giving you guys the SPOTLIGHT!

Let’s break the comment record on this blog site (something like 25 comments in one day)… EVERY PERSON, take a few minutes and write something INSPIRATIONAL!

Please tell us WHERE YOU ARE FROM… and something you’re LEARNING right now! 

Ok… do it now! We’re all WAITING to be inspired by YOU! 

UPDATE: our family vacation is still BLESSED! We had a super yesterday. Ended up watching Destiny Family Center online… transformational! I helped Emily make the BEST Key Lime Pie we ever tasted! Since the waves were choppy and not suitable for surfing, Coree and I boogie boarded in the AGGRESSIVE ocean… very fun! We had leftover BBQ with Sticky Fingers BBQ sauce for dinner… very tasty! Went to the old lighthouse to visit the turtles after dinner… pretty scary! lol (photo)

Today, we’re taking the ferry back to Ocracoke… gonna hit the beaches, look for shells with emily, swim (and MAYBE surf), eat junk food all day, read, walk the shore and talk to God, and who knows what else… I love my family! 

Don’t forget to keep following us on twitter and facebook… I’m adding photos and status updates every few hours.

Have a super day everyone! Ohh… and please, EVERYONE leave a comment! Common, you can do it! I’m still waiting…