The Inspirational Story of Nicholas Sparks!

Happy Friday!

This will be the longest blog I’ve EVER posted. Since I am personally moving into the agent/publishing phase of my first book… I thought to share this INSPIRATIONAL story about how Nicholas Sparks found his agent and published his first novel, The Notebook! Thank you Jonathan Woodard for sharing this story with me!

Since The Notebook, Sparks has published something like FIFTEEN world renowned novels, several of which have also become MOTION PICTURES including: Message in a Bottle, A Walk to Remember, Nights in Rodanthe, and The Guardian! His success is EPIC!

If you guys have the time to read this AMAZING STORY… it will INSPIRE you to DREAM BIG, LIVE BOLD, and MAKE A DIFFERENCE with your own life! Your dream may not be as BIG as publishing a PILE of best selling books that turns into motion pictures… but your dreams really, really MATTER!

Dreams don’t happen overnight… they ALWAYS take longer than we originally anticipate. We have to survive a decade or two in hell… and undergo a hundred metamorphosis’… and we have to learn fifty new skills… and make all new friends once or twice… and…

Sometimes, discouragement sets in on the long journey to a big dream. And if we learn to charge our way through the discouragement, and blast our way through those inevitable barriers of boredom, and we KEEP THE DREAM ALIVE… our day WILL come! And just like Nicholas Sparks… our DREAM WILL ARIVE SAFELY AT ITS INTENDED DESTINATION!

Enjoy the following story… its a LIVELY ONE!

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The Story of How I (Nicholas Sparks) Found an Agent

“. . . In January 1995, after the first draft of The Notebook had been completed, I accepted a job transfer from my home in North Carolina to Greenville, South Carolina. Due to the chaos of that time — selling my old house, buying a new one, the family going back and forth between the two cities, establishing a new sales territory and getting to know new co-workers and the boss, etc. — I continued tinkering with The Notebook until I was finally ready to get an agent. By then it was June.

Now, I didn’t know how to get an agent, and that’s one of the most frequently asked questions I receive from people who want to be published. They seem to regard it as something almost magical, the Holy Grail which will lead them to success. “How did you get a literary agent?” they’ll ask, hoping for my “secret.” So I tell them. What I did was simply this: I went to the bookstore and spent a great deal of time in the writing/publishing section, and read a bunch of chapters in various books, essentially entitled, “How to Get a Literary Agent,” and I pretty much followed the directions. That’s all there was to it. (The most helpful book I bought was, The Insider’s Guide to Book Editors, Publishers and Literary Agents by Jeff Herman and I highly recommend it)

What I essentially learned was this: the way to contact an agent varies slightly, but for the most part, the first step is to send a “Query Letter.” A query letter is the first contact with an agent, and is absolutely critical to getting a manuscript read. How critical? A typical agent in New York gets 400 query letters a month. Of those, they might ask to read 3-4 manuscripts, and of those, they might ask to represent one. The odds are tough, but not impossible, and that’s why I believe that a good query letter is the single most important page that any unknown, unpublished author will ever write.

I worked hard on mine — 17 drafts over two weeks and I did my best to make sure every word counted. A good letter will include: previous writing and publishing experience, a brief overview of the novel, other novels that it is similar to but why your novel is different, the reasons you want to work with this particular agent, the market for the novel, and a request to have the manuscript read. All this must be done in one page, by the way, and you must include a self-addressed, stamped envelope (SASE). (See Sample Query Letter, for what I wrote).

I then sent the letter off to 25 agents, picked at random. Since I didn’t know anyone in the business, I picked them for varying reasons: this one represents other famous authors, that one represented a similar book, this one is new and might be looking for clients, that one went the same school that I did. There was some method to the madness, though not much more than that.

Now, the books I’d read about publishing said I could wait as long as six weeks to get an answer, so you can imagine my surprise when I received a call from a literary agent the following week. When I called her back, she said she liked my letter and would like me to send up my manuscript. The only problem was, I’d never heard of this particular literary agent — she hadn’t been on my list of 25. I asked her how she’d heard of the novel, and I remember mumbling something along the lines of, “Could it be that based on a single letter, the reputation of my novel is already sweeping through the halls of the publishing world and is already generating enough excitement to set the book world on fire?”

The agent said, “Well. . . er. . .no, not exactly. Do you remember _______ who you did send the letter to at this agency?” I did and said so, and the agent said, “Well, she died recently, and one of my colleagues — the deceased agent’s former assistant — found your letter in her slush pile. It wasn’t right for him, but he thought it might interest me.” With her answer, my shoulders sagged. I needed, I suddenly thought, a more up-to-date book on publishing. But since she said she was an agent, I sent the manuscript up, again not expecting to hear from her for six weeks or so.

Three days later she called me and said, “I’ve read your manuscript and I’d really like to work with you on this project.”

Let me tell you, folks, I felt so good about myself then. I mean, here I was — one letter answered, one agent wanting, practically begging, to work with me. Can’t get much better than 100%! I was batting a thousand and I still had 24 more letters to go! It was painfully obvious that, based on what just happened, that every single one of the other agents was going to have exactly the same reaction and I could imagine myself later that summer sitting at the kitchen table, picking through resumes, weighing my options and saying something to the other agents like, “Well, I’m sorry but I’m going to have to say no. You see, the thing is, you represent Pat Conroy, and you know — I need someone with experience.”

Ah, the fantasies. Those glorious fantasies. My query letter did generate a good response — 12 agents asked to see part or all of the manuscript, which was great — but by the end of the summer, the other 24 all said no, even those that had read the novel. That left the one agent, the first one who’d responded, as my only chance for representation. But she still hadn’t sent me the official, “okee-dokey, I’ll be your agent” agreement form. And since I knew nothing about her, I decided to give her a quick interview. After the customary small talk, it went something like this:

“Do you mind if I ask you a few questions?” I said, pen poised over a pad of paper, ready to jot down the pertinent information.

“Not at all,” she said.

“Well. . . how old are you?” I asked. (In our previous conversations, I thought she sounded a little young.)

“Twenty-six.”

“Oh. . .” I said, thinking, That’s it? “Well. . . how long have you been a literary agent?”

“About six months.”

My heart sank and I swallowed.

“Well, have you ever sold a novel before?”

“No.”

“Okay,” I said, “You’re hired. . . !”

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The Story of How I (Nicholas Sparks) Found a Publisher

“. . . My agent had me do quite a bit of editing on the manuscript version of The Notebook, and by late October, the book was finally ready to be presented to publishers. I made 25 copies of the manuscript and shipped them up, second day air, and she got them on a Wednesday. On Thursday and Friday, they were going out to publishers. Again, I checked my books on publishing, and they said that I could wait up to six weeks to hear anything, so I decided I wasn’t going to be one of those pesky clients who bother their agents all the time.

On Friday night, though, she called me. “You know,” she said, sort of dragging out the words, “I think we might have something. . . big.”

My eyes boggled as my lips formed around the word. Big. . .big. . .

I remember hanging up the phone and running out of the house in search of my wife who was taking the kids and dogs for a walk around the block. I caught up to her, and — brushing my fingers along my chest and examining the nails while I sniffed, I said, “I was just talking to my agent,” I said oh-so-nonchalantly, playing it cool, “and she said we might have something. . . big.”

My wife looked at me, unimpressed. “What does that mean?”

“I don’t know,” I said, “But it sure sounds good, doesn’t it?”

Before she hung up the phone, my agent asked if I could be home on Monday, because she was expecting an offer, but since I was selling pharmaceuticals and I had a luncheon for doctors planned that I couldn’t get out of, I told her that I couldn’t stay home, but that I’d check my voice-mail every hour.

My wife and I spent the weekend wondering what “big” might mean. “What if we can pay off the credit-card bills?” she asked. “What if we can get a new car!” I said in response. “It would be like Wheel of Fortune!” Oh, the tension was building. . . building. . . what could it mean? What does big mean?

On Monday, I woke up, put on my lucky suit, and headed off to work with my head spinning. I checked my voice mail at nine o’clock, but no message from the agent. Minutes ticked past, then more, and I checked again at ten o’clock, expecting something along the lines of, “Well, today’s the day,” or something like that. But there was nothing. So I checked again at eleven o’clock.

Nothing.

By then, my hopes were fading fast, and because of the luncheon, I spent most of the next hour picking up food and setting up the luncheon. By the time I was done and had everything ready, it was noon, and no one had come up for lunch, yet.

So I picked up the phone, checked my voice-mail, and there was a message from my agent, asking me to call her.

I took a deep breath, hung up the phone, and called my agent in New York.

“Yes?” I said, my mouth going dry.

“Well, just like we thought, we got an offer from Warner Books.”

I closed my eyes.

“And?” I asked.

My agent paused, drawing it out.

“Warner Books,” she said, “would like to offer you one million dollars.”

For a long moment, I couldn’t speak at all as my mind formed around the number. “Big” didn’t do it justice.

As if sensing my hesitation, my agent cleared her throat.

“What do you think?” she asked. She said this as though this sort of thing happened to me every day.

“I think that’s GREAT!!!!!!!” I screamed into the receiver.

And the rest is history. . .

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Closing remarks from Mr. Chuck

I hope todays blog adds tremendous value to your amazing lives! I just finished praying for you… so make it count! Go have the Friday of your LIVES!

Ten of My Favorite Posts: From Nov 08-Mar 09

Happy Monday!

Can you believe there are 299 daily posts on this blog site. That’s enough content for a person to READ all day long if desired… heck, thats a few days worth of inspirational content! So far, our record holder comes out of the United Arab Emirates, the city of Dubai… one guest read more than 100 posts in ONE DAY! Thanks for that epic enthusiasm kind person!

Today: I’m listing 10 of my favorites… (from Nov 08-Mar 09) ENJOY! Try to read them all IF you can!

10. Love a Lonely Person Before Christmas
09. Cinderella Balsamo: Our Newest Potbelly
08. John the Baptist and Political Correctness
07. Father to the Fatherless, Defender of Widows
06. Identity Transformation: A Letter From Jail
05. Nine Equities Life Management System
04. Stories From the Streets of Washington DC
03. Teens led Church Last Night
02. Thank God for Gods Love
01. The Day Out Toilet Almost Ended my Life

Actually… this is the FIRST time I have gone back through the archives since I started blogging in November of last year… and here’s what I discovered: This site is FILLED with transformational content! These ten favorites I’ve listed for you guys today… I only made it through March… and there were 30 others I wanted to include!

SOOOO… The next time you get a few hours to yourself, consider perusing through the archives for some FRESH INSPIRATION on a VARIETY of relevant topics!

If you have a favorite that really stands out about all the others… please let us know today! And hey… have a most outstanding Monday everyone!

Light up the World: The Obsession of Jesus!

Happy Sunday!

Having a super Labor Day weekend? Maybe this new song from Desperation Band will help… (watch the video and then proceed)

Here’s what I love about this message: It paints a picture of WHAT IS POSSIBLE… if followers of Jesus will MAJOR on the Great Commission! We can be the GREAT LIGHT OF THIS MODERN WORLD… and the moment is perfect for us to rise from the obscurity of our own slumber.

Up from the ashes of yesterdays awakening… perhaps the fading embers of yesterdays awakenings… could it be? that hope will flash out one more time… and for now, the whole earth groans… waiting… for the dead wood church to fall upon the unchanging mission of Jesus Christ… waiting for this generation to catch the HEART of Jesus, and be obsessed with his obsession to seek and save the lost… and should we fall face down on this ENLIVENING mission… perhaps we will burst into holy flames… and become the GREAT LIGHT OF THE WORLD… ONE MORE TIME!

I want to live in this light always… I want to carry this light… I’ve tied a white bandana around my head, I’ve cut covenant with others who share my holy obsession… civilization groans from the dark places… she waits… for the voice of one crying in the wilderness, “prepare the way of the Lord”… let this last awakening begin in me… let it begin in you… let it begin NOW.

Bizarre writing style this morning… don’t try to proof it, just FEEL IT. Watch the video again… and FEEL the passion of Jesus until HIS PASSION becomes your passion too.

Luke 19:10 For the Son of Man came to seek and save what was LOST.

The Apostle Paul explaining his high calling to King Agrippa in…

Acts 26:15-19 Then I asked, “Who are you, Lord?” ’I am Jesus, whom you are persecuting,’ the Lord replied. ‘Now get up and stand on your feet. I have appeared to you to appoint you as a servant and as a witness of what you have seen of me and what I will show you. I will rescue you from your own people and from the Gentiles. I am sending you to them TO OPEN THEIR EYES and turn them from darkness to light, and from the power of Satan to God, so that they may receive forgiveness of sins and a place among those who are sanctified by faith in me.’ ”So then, King Agrippa, I was not disobedient to the vision from heaven.”

I hope todays blog evokes a sense of destiny… I pray it drives each of us closer and closer to the Great Commission. More to come… at Destiny Family Center, 10am TODAY! Come in person or catch the LIVE broadcast… have a super day everyone!

Refresh Yourself!

Happy Saturday!

What are you guys planning to do on this very lovely day? Gonna REST and REPLENISH? Maybe go for a walk… or a run… or a swim… or a hike… maybe spread out a blanket and have a picnic? Even if you’re working… schedule some YOU TIME and REFRESH YOURSELF at some point before the sun goes down! 

re·fresh (r-frsh)
v. re·freshed, re·fresh·ing, re·fresh·es
1. To revive with or as if with rest, food, or drink; give new vigor or spirit to.
2. To give new freshness or brightness to; restore.
3. To make cool, clean, or moist; freshen up.
4. To renew by stimulation: refresh one’s memory.
5. To fill up again; replenish: refresh a drink.

Thesaurus: verb 1. revive, cool, freshen, revitalize, cheer, stimulate, brace, rejuvenate, kick-start (informal) enliven, breathe new life into, invigorate, revivify, reanimate, inspirit!

Can you FEEL the LIFE? The ENERGY? The OPPORTUNITY? 

God made humans to go VERY STRONG for 6 days… then REFRESH on the 7th… and GO VERY STRONG for another 6 days… and REFRESH every 7th day! In American culture, we typically view the WEEKEND as our time for REFRESHING!

Whether your day is today or tomorrow, or a little of both… take the GIFT OF REST and use it for MAXIMIZING your effectiveness! When your on, BE ON 125%… and when you are OFF, be off 125%! If you work hard… make sure you PLAY HARD TOO!

While I am talking here about the need for REFRESHING our mind and body, I also want to promote SPIRITUAL REFRESHING! 

Acts 3:19-20 Now repent of your sins and turn to God, so that your sins may be wiped away. Then times of REFRESHMENT will come from the presence of the Lord, and he will again send you Jesus, your appointed Messiah.

This is HOW people SPIRITUALLY REFRESH… by taking the time to pray and turn away from of our sins… and the Bible PROMISES REFRESHMENT from the presence of the Lord! 

Here are some simple tips for making sure your TOTAL PERSON IS ALWAYS PROPERLY REFRESHED…

  • Exercise 3-5 days EACH WEEK. (Body)
  • Eat healthy 5-6 days a week. (Body)
  • Spend 5 minutes a few times a day breathing in fresh air. (Body)
  • Schedule new experiences each month. (Mind and Spirit)
  • Spend quality time with quality people each week. (Mind and Spirit)
  • Rest outside on a blanket or a hammock, beside a creek or pond, some place inspirational… a few times a week. (Mind)
  • Read one or more exciting books each month. (Mind)
  • Find something hilarious to laugh about each day. (Mind)
  • Listen to praise and worship music and pray each morning. (Spirit)
  • Actually READ your Bible and mediate on certain verses… each day. (Spirit and Mind)
  • Keep a daily journal. (Mind and Spirit)
  • Go to church every Sunday (and mid week if available)… did I say EVERY? (Spirit and Mind)
  • Please COMMENT with your ideas… 

These are just a few that came off the top of my head. I pray that todays blog adds tremendous value to your AMAZING lives! 

Ohhhhhh… wait! Please don’t forget my BIRTHDAY PARTY CELEBRATION tomorrow at 5pm… get details and directions at Destiny Family Center tomorrow morning. Hope you can make it!

The Hope of Restoration

Good Morning Everyone!

I read in Micah this morning… and a few verses JUMPED off the page… check this out you guys.

Micah 2:12-13 

“Someday, O Israel, I will GATHER you;
      I will gather the REMNANT who are left.
   I will bring you TOGETHER AGAIN like sheep in a pen,
      like a flock in its pasture.
   Yes, your land will again
      be filled with NOISY CROWDS!
 Your LEADER WILL BREAK OUT
      and LEAD YOU OUT of exile,
   out through the gates of the enemy cities,
      back TO YOUR OWN LAND.
   Your king will lead you;
      THE LORD HIMSELF
 will guide you.”

Even though this prophecy contains it’s purest message to the Jewish people as a promise that God will bring them back into their stolen territories… there is a BIG message within this message to all of us TODAY!  

Someday… I will gather the remnant people who are left! God is saying… I will GATHER the ones who were able to weather the adversity and remain upright! The trees who’s roots RAN DEEPER during those times of raging winds and rainless clouds… those who have demonstrated their FAITHFULNESS in oppressive times… that they CANNOT and WILL NOT be shaken! Those who welcome challenges as opportunities to halt and prove their identity!

If you have been scattered in times of adversity… you have been ravished on the outside, but on the INSIDE you’re STILL STANDING SOLID IN YOUR FAITH! If you can just HOLD ON WHEN in times like these… and keep it together when so many others are falling apart and falling away… if you can DEMONSTRATE that YOU are a SURVIVOR…

God promises to GATHER you again… and BRING YOU TOGETHER with other SURVIVORS… not for the purpose of living in the miserable memories of yesteryear! He promises to BRING YOU TOGETHER like SHEEP IN A PEN… like a FLOCK IN ITS BEAUTIFUL PASTURE! 

He says that YOUR LAND… those places and things that God has given to you throughout the years… things that seem to have been STOLEN and not recoverable… YOUR LAND will AGAIN be FILLED with NOISY CROWDS… a sign of VICTORY, MULTIPLICATION… and GREAT CELEBRATION!

God promises to GIVE YOU A LEADER who will BREAK OUT… and LEAD YOU FROM EXILE… out through the gates of your enemies and into YOUR OWN LAND again! So pray for your leaders like never before… believe for leaders who will RISE UP AND BREAK OUT… to LEAD their FLOCKS from exile! 

At the end of this prophecy, Micah says… YOUR KING WILL LEAD YOU… THE LORD HIMSELF WILL BE YOUR GUIDE! This is a promise of Gods PRESENCE DWELLING in the hearts of all his people, LEADING us into the GREENEST PASTURES EVER! 

Psalm 23 

The LORD is my shepherd; I shall not want. He maketh me to lie down in green pastures: he leadeth me beside the still waters. He restoreth my soul: he leadeth me in the paths of righteousness for his name’s sake. Yea, though I walk through the valley of the shadow of death, I will fear no evil: for thou art with me; thy rod and thy staff they comfort me. Thou preparest a table before me in the presence of mine enemies: thou anointest my head with oil; my cup runneth over. Surely goodness and mercy shall follow me all the days of my life: and I will dwell in the house of the LORD for ever.

I realize how PREACHY this blog may sound today… I’m pretty excited about it as you can tell… hoping these words add tremendous value to your amazing lives! Please tell your friends, leave your comments, and pray for us as we PRAY SO MUCH FOR YOU! Have a super duper day everyone…