This Is Your Turning Point!

Happy Saturday!

Every few days, I like to scroll through my book and pick out a few paragraphs that really speak to me. Here’s what speaks to me this morning…

Make Me A Legend 

Chapter 6: Hurry Up and Find Rock Bottom

Hovering Over Rock Bottom In The Pigs Pen

Isn’t it sad and ironic to think about how much God loves us, and how we spend so much of our lives running and hiding from Him? Why do we muscle through our days in human strength, only turning to God when we have nowhere else to turn? Why do we make Him our last resort? Why?

We live in a time when anyone claiming a close relationship with God is shunned as a “religious fanatic.” This modern world makes it seem as if the only people who actually use the Bible as their guiding light are the Jesus freaks. It’s like we’re telling God to leave us alone so we can live as we see best, without having a responsibility to some heavenly Father. Take a look at the beautiful story Jesus used for describing this insanity:

To illustrate the point further, Jesus told them this story: “A man had two sons. The younger son told his father, ‘I want my share of your estate now, instead of waiting until you die.’ So his father agreed to divide his wealth between his sons. A few days later this younger son packed all his belongings and took a trip to a distant land, and there he wasted all his money on wild living.

About the time his money ran out, a great famine swept over the land, and he began to starve. He persuaded a local farmer to hire him to feed his pigs. The boy became so hungry that even the pods he was feeding the pigs looked good to him. But no one gave him anything. [Tough love] …When he finally came to his senses, he said to himself, ‘At home even the hired men have food enough to spare, and here I am, dying of hunger! I will go home to my father and say, “Father, I have sinned against both heaven and you, and I am no longer worthy of being called your son. Please take me on as a hired servant”’” (Luke 15:11-19).

Can you see why this message was, and still is, such an important message from Jesus? Millions of people who have never heard about Jesus have heard His story of the Prodigal Son. I think it’s so popular because everyone has served time in the pig pen, haven’t we?

Of course, not everyone in the mud is perceptibly trudging around in some extreme state of human deprivation. There is a vast sea of prodigals who seem to have their lives together—living in nice homes, driving nice cars, and having nice careers—while the real truth is that they’re torn to pieces on the inside. No matter how successful we become in this world, nothing ever truly satisfies when our connection with the Father is broken.

Almost every day, I see people who are worn down with hard life in the pig pen. Some of them have spent so much time in the mire they’ve started to oink, grunt, and squeal at their own reflection. Their weather-beaten hides are bone dry and callus-covered—coarse, like sandpaper. They look thirty years older than they are. In a haze of misery, herds of these history-maker hopefuls drift into the wastelands with very little chance of return. They stopped liking themselves a long time ago; their dignity is shredded, and they feel like they have nothing and nobody to live for.

God forbid that you’re up to your neck in the slop right now, reduced to a fraction of the amazing person you once were or could be, gasping for your life under the unbearable consequences of a big series of wrong moves. I’ve seen this happen so many times to so many people. Nobody ever plans a trip to rock bottom. Everyone gets there while trying to go somewhere else.

The Turning Point

Once you’ve really been there, you will always remember rock bottom as the Eden of your re-creation! Even though right now you may be gasping for air, only a few seconds from flat lining your way into eternity, rock bottom is a wormhole in the core of hell that transports the dead back into the land of the living.

While rock bottom will always be the low mark of your life, it is so much more—rock bottom is the starting location for your next exciting journey. So no matter how bad things might be going in your life right now, go ahead and free your heart to hope again! This moment is the end of your life as it has been to this point, but it need not be the end of you. Change your perspective! Be optimistic about all the suffering you’re going through, for this can be the start of something wonderful—it can be all upward from here, if you just do the right thing at rock bottom.

In my own life, I’ve been shocked with how fast God can shift the momentum back in my favor. It’s nothing for God to work a 24-hour miracle! It doesn’t matter how far down you’ve fallen; if you’re serious about returning home, this is the moment when God steps in like a superhero to the rescue. He’s been waiting for this moment all your life, and here it is! Father is livid with your enemies! He’s been anticipating the rock-bottom prayers you’re now praying. He’s never forced Himself on you before today, but if you’ll open your heart, He’ll rush in like a gale-force wind! Open the doors and windows as wide as possible—let the fresh, spring air in! This is a new season in your life!

Swooping down out of nowhere, it would seem, with His bare hands He will tear apart everything that has been making you cry. Stop trembling in fear! You’re safe now. You’ve come under the omnipotent protection of God. Just reach out and take your Father’s hand. Be still for a moment and let Him have a look at you. God specializes in fixing broken people and shattered circumstances. God is the restorer of broken dreams and the giver of new ones! No broken person is broken beyond repair. Every person is fixable! Yes, God can fix you!

I’m listing to the following video and praying specially for all those who are nearing rock bottom… for the first time or the hundredth time. I’m praying for your miracle, for your sudden rise from the ashes, and for your happily ever after.

With so much love,

Chuck

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Everyone Needs Mercy

Make Me A Legend

Chapter 15: Bow Lower As You Climb Higher

Beware, The Angry Mobs 

Every time a high-profile person collapses, I feel their pain like it is happening to my family and me. I am not one to churn out the jokes, or shove the strugglers down to hell. While the newscasters, talk show hosts, and self-righteous church folks mock and jeer and hiss and boo for months to years, I fall down on my face in intercession for these humiliated people and their suffering families. I pray for fallen people, no matter how hideously they have transgressed, oftentimes with a river of tears, that God will bend down in His great mercy and nurse them back to life. In what is thought to be the oldest book of the New Testament, James recorded:

Speak and act as those who are going to be judged by the law that gives freedom, because judgment without mercy will be shown to anyone who has not been merciful. Mercy triumphs over judgment (James 2:12-13 NIV).

Merciless people outrage me, when they so arrogantly sidestep their own failures to “expose” a broken person. One self-righteous person gets a taste of blood, then another, and a few more—and in a matter of seconds, a mob is formed. It is one of my highest life goals: to never lead an angry mob or join one. I never want there to be any mistake about my position. I will never endorse a mob with my spineless neutrality. If you’re a bully, you’ll be no friend of mine.

I never want to point my finger in judgment when someone is failing. I never want to kick a knocked down person. If I can’t help, then I will pray. I will search the depths of my own heart. In the fear of God, I will keep on telling myself, Chuck, you have no idea what kind of pressure that person was under that led to such a failure. And Chuck, if you even think for a minute this could never happen to you, then think again; you have never known that degree of satanic solicitation, the kind of pressure and erosion that person has faced these past years. Someday, soon enough, you will have your shot. Someday, you will stand on their mountain. In that day, you will see how much more violently the wind blows up there. So, don’t brag because you are doing so well these days. You are just facing a few diaper demons, and look at how easily they still slap you around at times.

God told Jeremiah, “If racing against mere men makes you tired, how will you race against horses? If you stumble and fall on open ground, what will you do in the thickets near the Jordan?” (Jer. 12:5). This is why I hope you will read and re-read Make Me a Legend Chapters 9 and 10 and build your extravagant foundation. This is why you need to grow slowly. You have to master the footmen before graduating to the horses. You have to crawl to each next level on your knees, knowing that it’s violent at the top. If you do not ascend in grace and humility, then you will be crushed with what lies ahead.

I remember so clearly what I was thinking when I wrote these paragraphs. I actually teared up several times, thinking about all of the broken people in our world who in their life’s darkest moments, were kicked down instead of helped up.

Let us decide today, that we will always show mercy. Let’s love the fallen, and be God’s agent of healing several times each week.

Look around, there are broken people in every direction. The modern world has become colder, far more heartless, and judgmental.

This just means that you and I are more needed than ever in our lifetime. We can save lives with God’s love. I’ve done it before, and I bet you have to. People need us to nurse them back to life.

Maybe, you’ve been kicked on the ground for a strand of big mistakes. God wants to bring you back to life. No matter what you’ve done, He wants to show you the depths of His mercy.

This Sunday, at our DFC Vision Twenty12/17 presentation, I will be revealing our 14 Core Values. Here is one of them:

Don’t forget where you came from, everyone needs MERCY.
-Reference: Luke 10:37

Your thoughts?

Here is a great video for this moment. Elevation Worship, All Things New

I just prayed for you, like I do every morning. Have a beautiful day.

With much love,

Chuck

Ps: click here to order your signed copy of Make Me A Legend!

Everyone Starts Alone

Happy Friday,

Today, I wanted to share with you a tremendous thought from my book…

Make Me A Legend

Chapter 11 :: Celebrate Your Progress

Becoming Your Own Best Fan

In the fourth chapter of Philippians, Paul wrote about his early years of ministry when only one fan church financially supported him. Paul (who was named Saul at the time) said:

As you know, you Philippians were the only ones who gave me financial help when I first brought you the Good News and then traveled on from Macedonia. No other church did this (Philippians 4:15).

Can you imagine, a man who influenced the world as much as Apostle Paul, started out with an empty stadium? He most certainly did. In the Book of Acts, we see how a man named Barnabas stuck his neck out to vouch for Saul—before anybody else trusted him. (Saul was Paul’s name, prior to his God encounter.) Barnabas, whose name means son of encouragement, was Saul’s first fan!

Saul’s preaching became more and more powerful, and the Jews in Damascus couldn’t refute his proofs that Jesus was indeed the Messiah. After a while some of the Jews plotted together to kill him. They were watching for him day and night at the city gate so they could murder him, but Saul was told about their plot. So during the night, some of the other believers lowered him in a large basket through an opening in the city wall. When Saul arrived in Jerusalem, he tried to meet with the believers, but they were all afraid of him. They did not believe he had truly become a believer! Then Barnabas brought him to the apostles and told them how Saul had seen the Lord on the way to Damascus and how the Lord had spoken to Saul. He also told them that Saul had preached boldly in the name of Jesus in Damascus (Acts 9:22-27).

Before the world loves you, it may loathe you for a decade or two. Before people understand you, they may misinterpret even your purest intentions. Some people may even devote the major portion of their lives to bringing you down, thinking they are doing a great service to God for shutting you up. Jesus spoke of this in John 16:2 when He said, “For you will be expelled from the synagogues, and the time is coming when those who kill you will think they are doing a holy service for God.”

I speak from experience when I tell you that the more deeply you care about these people, the more it will hurt. Dealing with this degree of rejection will shatter your heart to tiny pieces, sending you to bed many nights feeling worthless and alone.

As soon as you start to advertise your vision, most everyone will think you have lost your mind. Even if they don’t say it out loud, they may think it. Familiarity breeds contempt. Prophets are usually without honor in their hometowns (see Luke 4:24). Even some of your closest pals will not be able to wait out your long season of small beginnings. This is not brought up as a condemning verdict over your family and friends; it is just a universal glitch of humanity.

No matter how hard we try, most people have to see tangible success before they can cheer. Think about this on a personal level. I bet you didn’t select your favorite sports team during a ten-year slump. No, you purchased your season tickets during the build-up of a huge winning streak. Sometimes, one good year is all it takes to get us in the stands and keep us there for life; sometimes it’s not. Little by little, enduring teams inevitably recruit and retain more fans than they turn away and their stadiums get fuller and louder until there is not a single empty seat.

Anyone can succeed when all they have to do is show up and ride to glory on the dynamism of a sold-out stadium. Since it does take time to recruit frenzied fans, you will need to master the art of becoming your own best fan. This is where legends seem to have an edge over others. They can feel positively about what they are doing long before anyone else appreciates it. Legends look far beyond their early days of unpopularity to the time when they have blessed the earth and people have benefited from their generous bequest.

I titled this blog, “Everyone Starts Alone,” because it’s true. If you’re in the early phases of your development, or even well advanced in years and experience… and you cannot figure out why it’s taking so long to get the wrong people off the bus, the right people on the bus, and the right people on the bus in the right seats… just know that if you really want to make a lasting difference in the world, then you will walk alone sometimes… usually longer than you want to.

In those moments, draw near to God. He is near to the lonely and brokenhearted. He has promised to never leave you nor forsake you. He is near.

I just finished praying for you this morning.

With much love,

Chuck Balsamo

Ps: click here to order your signed copy of Make Me A Legend!

Make Me A Legend – Black Friday Sale – $8 Paperback/$12 Hardcover – Until 8:12PM!

Happy Thanksgiving Weekend!

Last night, my family went Black Friday crazy, for the very first time ever. . .and it was hilarious!

I’ve only seen Emily Balsamo that excited a few times in her life. She had a map of her stores and a brilliant strike plan. . .went in for certain items and came home with each of them! Mainly, she was thrilled about her $200 40 inch TV for the bedroom.

Coree Balsamo was even more insane than Emily. (He is so much like her). He pulled an all nighter with his friends, went to something like 20 stores with a written strategy like something you would see in a complicated multimillion dollar bank robbery film. Their night included a one hour midnight break at the Waffle House! (haha)

I was on the phone with Coree this morning, asking questions about his successes and he told me:

“Ok, well I can’t talk right now, this is worse than texting & driving.”

Sadly, I was not with them, because I injured my knee running in the annual Waynesboro YMCA Turkey Trot. My Daughter Heaven was the official turkey trot turkey!

Here is the Turkey Trot Video from NBC 29 – featuring Heaven, the turkey! (18 seconds into the video)

So… I decided to get in on the Black Friday fun with a creative Black Friday Sale! lol

Today Only!

Make Me A Legend – Black Friday Sale
$8 Paperback/$12 Hardcover – Until 8:12PM

You must order from this blog post. I am still signing every copy!

[Sale is over, link is removed, thank you for sharing the fun with us.]

From my family to you and yours, Happy Thanksgiving weekend. With much love…

Dream Big,

Chuck Balsamo

Are You Regressing, Maintaining, or Thrusting Forward Like A Rocket?

Happy Wednesday!

What are you currently doing to fill your mind with new information? Is your mind bored, sleepy, and negative… or challenged, awake, positive, and powerful?

What about your spiritual experience? Are you drifting backwards, or moving infinitely closer to God?

Are you losing your grip on life, or taking proposed steps towards greatness and promotion?

While you hope and pray for a breakthrough, is GOD waiting for YOU to significantly up your game… so that He can answer those prayers?

Sometimes, it seems that God moves despite our actions. He gives us many things we have not earned, and do not deserve.

But more often than we can imagine, God is paralyzed from giving us the bigger blessings because WE PREVENT HIM.

God gives every human certain natural talents. These talents will not benefit our lives until we recognize them and REFINE them!

What are you currently doing to turn you God given talents into refined SKILLS?

I’m not asking you about what you’ve done in the past. This blog is about NOW.

Where are you on the momentum scale?

Are you regressing, maintaining, or thrusting forward like a rocket?

Here is a powerful section from my new book…

Make Me A Legend, Chapter 7: Earn Your Keep

My Bizarre Passion for Learning

Recently I received my current academic transcripts from Life Christian University and found that after I finish this manuscript, I will have achieved a total of 204 college credit hours, and I will have finally earned my Doctor of Ministry degree. Here’s the breakdown:

  • Undergraduate Studies—120 credit hours, GPA 3.73
  • Graduate Studies—36 credit hours, GPA 4.0
  • Post-graduate Studies—48 credit hours, GPA 4.0

Not too bad for the class clown who barely made it out of high school, and who never read a single book cover to cover until age 19! I lied on every book report and squeezed my way through English with a string of low Cs and Ds. When I was younger, I hated the classroom. I refused to read because I felt that I already knew so much; to me, school was a big waste of my work and social time. Then I hit the real world, and I struggled unbearably! Thank God it didn’t take me long to see how much I had to learn.

Here I am two decades later, and wow, how things have changed! My passion for learning is a work of God’s grace. Sometimes, when I think about where I came from, it’s as if I’m hearing about a man I’ve never met! Believe me, this radical degree of transformation can happen to anyone. Once the mind is awakened, it rarely goes back to sleep. All a person needs is one good book to get the learning started—the rest is history!

I know this is going to sound super-spiritual, but it’s true—the Bible is the very first book I ever completely read. By the time I was 21, I had devoured it—cover to cover—several times. I was reading ten to twenty chapters a day at times. On one quiet Saturday, I read the Book of Daniel three times and the entire Book of Jeremiah—all in one sitting! I began a routine that was popular back in those days—reading and meditating on one chapter of Proverbs each day. I swallowed down every morsel of insight I could pull from every chapter. By the grace of God, I’ve maintained this same commitment to reading the Bible for more than 19 years now; it has been life-changing!

I’m sorry if this sounds like a mountain of bragging, but I hope to rouse within you this same acquired love for learning. Think about it—you’re reading a full-sized book, written by a guy who never read a book in his life before the Bible at age 19—except maybe Clifford the Big Red Dog and a few dinosaur pop-up books that don’t really count. Maybe you didn’t do your best in high school either. There is still time to learn—it’s amazing what a mature adult can learn and add to classroom discussions. There are many colleges and universities that offer online learning opportunities in every area of interest.

In my early 20s, I began taking Bible college classes, and I haven’t stopped studying theology and ministry since then. At age 24, I caught something important from my world-renowned real estate coach, Mike Ferry—his rare appetite for new information. I’ll never forget how much it inspired me every time Mike spoke of the number of books he read each month and how committed he was to multiplying his effectiveness. During that time, I started reading at least four books a month—a habit that has stuck with me. Thank God for people like Mike Ferry! Attending his seminars was so much more to me than the profound information he presented; it was really about catching his passion. To this day, I’ve never met a man more inclined to learn.

After this book is published and I have received my Doctor of Ministry, I will continue to read a few books a month for the rest of my life. And I will complete another 45 post-graduate credit hours to earn my Doctor of Philosophy. Beyond this, I might study law or medicine, or something else that will help me better understand government, society, or certain intriguing aspects of our physical universe. Hopefully, I’ll form a writing team and we’ll publish a hundred books or more. I’d like to learn classical piano and study new languages and learn how to communicate in sign language for the deaf. I certainly plan to study and experience God for the rest of my life! I want to know everything a human can know about Him before I head for Heaven.

I will never, ever stop learning. Neither should you. No matter your age, I pray that you will make a radical move toward learning, just like I did. Today, I hope my thirst for education inspires you just as much my real estate coach, Mike Ferry, inspired me. Maybe you’ll enroll in night classes at a community college. Maybe you’ll register for classes at a trade school or enroll in Bible college or law school. Maybe you’ll commit to some other fascinating field of study online. I do hope you start to up your game, and keep upping your game from today forward.

Really, who are we to brag in this 21st century compared to the legendary students of centuries past? Please consider John Welsey—the great evangelist from the First Great Awakening and founder of the Methodist church. In the course of his ministry, John Welsey “rose daily at 4 a.m., was preaching at 5 a.m. so working men could attend his services…traveled 225,000 miles, mostly on horseback, and preached over 50,000 sermons.” That’s 1,000 sermons per year for 50 years (or three per day)! Simultaneous with this preaching schedule, Welsey “wrote 233 books on all sorts of subjects, including some health remedies (Primitive Medicine, in use for almost 200 years) and one of the earliest texts on electricity!” He published “fifty volumes of theology called the Christian Library…a complete commentary on the whole Bible…composed hymns which live to this day.” John Welsey left behind him 750 preachers in England and 350 in America; 76,968 Methodists in England, and 57,621 in America.”2 We should be shocked to new life with biographies like this one.

A Few Great Quotes About Learning

  • I am learning all the time. The tombstone will be my diploma. —Eartha Kitt
  • Man’s mind, once stretched by a new idea, never regains its original dimensions. —Oliver Wendell Holmes
  • I don’t think much of a man who is not wiser today than he was yesterday. —Abraham Lincoln
  • Anyone who stops learning is old, whether at twenty or eighty. —Henry Ford

Wisdom has built her house; she has carved its seven columns. She has prepared a great banquet, mixed the wines, and set the table. She has sent her servants to invite everyone to come. She calls out from the heights overlooking the city. “Come in with me,” she urges the simple. To those who lack good judgment, she says, “Come, eat my food, and drink the wine I have mixed. Leave your simple [foolish] ways behind, and begin to live; learn how to use good judgment” [be wise]. —King Solomon (Proverbs 9:1-6)

Please meditate on this information throughout the day!

Your thoughts?

I just finished praying for you today. With much love…

Chuck Balsamo

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