Happy Valentines Day Friends!
Love is in the air… everywhere we look there are big red hearts and chocolates and flowers and… couples holding hands… smiling faces… and happy people saying I LOVE YOU!
Let’s not miss the opportunity to let people know how much they matter to us on this LOVEY day! Yes, I fully understand that this is really a day for couples… and I pray a ROMANTIC blessing over all you blogger couples! Have the valentines day of your lives… maximizing this opportunity to lavish your beloved!
If you’re not yet married, beware of the cupids arrow… remember that the only purpose of dating is to INTERVIEW for your LIFE PARTNER! Maintain SOLID BOUNDARIES and save the deep romantic fun for that one very special person you will spend the rest of your life with! Dedicate this lusty day to God and he will grace you with purity. Enjoy the interview… make your dates day memorable… have a clean blast!
Let’s never forget the vast gap between “in love” and “real love.”
In love is rooted in chemistry and its short lived. In love is all about the FEELING… the ATTRACTION. It’s all about what I’M GETTING out of the relationship.
Real Love is a committed kind of love… a giving kind of live. Real love can never be experienced until in love runs its course. This is when most relationships end in big nasty breakups. It’s the time when young couples are not as chemically attracted as they were… no longer feeling like they’re getting much out of the relationship. And unless we step over into the AMAZING WORLD OF REAL LOVE, we will spend so much of our lives in and out of new relationships.
The goal of love is this: To relate with people not because of what we can GET from a relationship, but rather for what we can GIVE to a relationship.
For God SO LOVED the world that he gave his only son… He took first action… He INVESTED REAL LOVE without a guarantee of reciprocation. He changed our lives with REAL LOVE… he transformed us by committing to us way back before we ever appreciated that commitment.
So, this Valentines Day, may we seek to GIVE away some REAL LOVE…
I’m committed to making your lives better… I’m committed to LOVE YOU into greatness! So, have a super day… don’t forget church at Destiny Family Center tomorrow morning at 10am!!