Love And Get Loved!

Happy Saturday!

Life is measured by the condition of our relationships.

You can have possessions and (shallow) popularity, a house and a great career… but without people to share it with, life is…

empty.

You’ve heard the saying, “As long as we have each other, we will make it through this.”

Disaster with faith and companionship is usually an adventure, but a perfect life without the same is always a disaster.

Nothing satisfies the longing of the heart like being in close relationship with God, and in close relationship with caring people.

Life is simple: It’s about the vertical relationship (with God) and horizontal relationships (with people). If you master these two things, you will have a happy future-guaranteed!

Think about this: Whenever you reach impossible situations, you don’t usually need an immediate solution, as long as you have someone to hug… as long as you don’t have to suffer alone.

Here is what King Solomon had to say about the topic…

Ecclesiastes 4:8-12

8 There was a man all alone;
he had neither son nor brother.
There was no end to his toil,
yet his eyes were not content with his wealth.
“For whom am I toiling,” he asked,
“and why am I depriving myself of enjoyment?”
This too is meaningless—
a miserable business!

9 Two are better than one,
because they have a good return for their labor:
10 If either of them falls down,
one can help the other up.
But pity anyone who falls
and has no one to help them up.
11 Also, if two lie down together, they will keep warm.
But how can one keep warm alone?
12 Though one may be overpowered,
two can defend themselves.
A cord of three strands is not quickly broken.

I’ve had so many people say to me, “I just can’t help everyone, in fact, I can’t help anyone these days.”

Yes, you can help!

give love.

Listen to the suffering people. Hug them when they cry.

You can turn disasters into adventures! Give the gift of prayer.

Pray together! Face life together! No person suffers alone. No person celebrates victory alone. No person, alone.

Today, I thank God for his love. I feel it always present, like the morning sun that is rising now over my chilly patio. I thank God for my family and friends. I thank God for love, His love and yours!

Today’s photo from sayingimages.com

Have an amazing Weekend! With much love…

Dream Big, Live Bold, and Leave a Legacy,

Chuck Balsamo

Indestructable: I’m Under Assignment :)

Happy Monday Everyone!

Hope you all had a super amazing weekend!

On Saturday, we did a waterfall hike, then hosted Coree and Heavens friends for the first patio party of the year… went to bed late, lost an hour… and woke up EXHAUSTED Sunday morning!

On Sunday, church was OUTSTANDING… then we hosted a group that comes to our church from Richmond (a church ALIVE is worth the drive)… we all had lunch on the patio! (loving the beautiful weather) After that, Emily and I went to Bible College… all I had to do was administer an exam and introduce a new instructor! Then I wrote in my book while Emily finished her classes… then we went home and RESTED until “The Celebrity Apprentice” and LOVED every minute of that! The day ended praying with Coree and Heaven… and drifting off into the land of DREAMS! (except I didn’t have a single dream last night… highly unusual)

I woke up feeling really confident today… almost like a few thousand angles moved onto my property and they are awaiting my orders! I felt this yesterday while I was in my office getting ready to preach… and then in a BIG way while I was preaching… and this confidence still remains almost 20 hours later! Hmmm… there must be something going on. Feels to be something GOOD.

Proverbs 29:25 NIV Fear of man will prove to be a snare, but whoever trusts in the LORD is kept safe.”

Psalm 3:5-7 NIV “I lie down and sleep; I wake again, because the LORD sustains me. I will not fear the tens of thousands drawn up against me on every side. Arise, O LORD! Deliver me, O my God! Strike all my enemies on the jaw; break the teeth of the wicked.”

My own fear of peope and circumstances seems to be going away these days… I have never in all my life felt this secure in who I am! I have never in all my life felt this INDESTRUCTABLE! I have never in all my life felt so guaranteed of success! I almost wonder if I’m going to look out the window and see a pen of 777 chickens laying golden eggs! If I look hard enough… I see warrior angels with swords drawn against all intruders! My car looks safer than President Obamas new missile proof Cadillac! I feel a new divine FAVOR in my life… with God, angels, and humans!

All of these things I am experiencing today can be experienced by all of us in varying degrees throughout our lives. While I believe that some of my experience is attributed to the current prophetic assignment on my life… I also believe that much of this is the result of having FAITH for it!

Every biblical promise is accessed and enjoyed through FAITH. If we need healing, we believe in the biblical promise healing and we stand IN FAITH until the physical symptoms recede! If we need a restoration in one of our relationships, we STAND IN FAITH that God is able to work out all things for his glory… and we STAND BELIEVING until the relationship is restored!

When it comes to having favor and achieving success… we must BELIEVE like this! Because as long as we live under the fear of people and circumstances, we will always come up short. We become what we believe we SHOULD become… nothing more than that!

So, today… change how you believe about your current situation! Start to believe God that there is an ASSIGNMENT on your life… and you cannot fail as long as you go forward! Rise above the low expectations of others… climb up over every disempowering voice… the real ones, and the ones whispered from demon spirits in dark places. Believing like you are a CHAMPION is the biggest hurdle to becoming a CHAMPION!

I pray that each of you get a little caught up in my personal experience today… I pray that you also rise above your fears to be MIGHTY throughout this next decade! God bless you all… leave your comments… let’s chat throughout the day!

In Love vs. Real Love

Happy Valentines Day Friends!

Love is in the air… everywhere we look there are big red hearts and chocolates and flowers and… couples holding hands… smiling faces… and happy people saying I LOVE YOU!

Let’s not miss the opportunity to let people know how much they matter to us on this LOVEY day! Yes, I fully understand that this is really a day for couples… and I pray a ROMANTIC blessing over all you blogger couples! Have the valentines day of your lives… maximizing this opportunity to lavish your beloved!

If you’re not yet married, beware of the cupids arrow… remember that the only purpose of dating is to INTERVIEW for your LIFE PARTNER! Maintain SOLID BOUNDARIES and save the deep romantic fun for that one very special person you will spend the rest of your life with! Dedicate this lusty day to God and he will grace you with purity. Enjoy the interview… make your dates day memorable… have a clean blast!

Let’s never forget the vast gap between “in love” and “real love.”

In love is rooted in chemistry and its short lived. In love is all about the FEELING… the ATTRACTION. It’s all about what I’M GETTING out of the relationship.

Real Love is a committed kind of love… a giving kind of live. Real love can never be experienced until in love runs its course. This is when most relationships end in big nasty breakups. It’s the time when young couples are not as chemically attracted as they were… no longer feeling like they’re getting much out of the relationship. And unless we step over into the AMAZING WORLD OF REAL LOVE, we will spend so much of our lives in and out of new relationships.

The goal of love is this: To relate with people not because of what we can GET from a relationship, but rather for what we can GIVE to a relationship.

For God SO LOVED the world that he gave his only son… He took first action… He INVESTED REAL LOVE without a guarantee of reciprocation. He changed our lives with REAL LOVE… he transformed us by committing to us way back before we ever appreciated that commitment.

So, this Valentines Day, may we seek to GIVE away some REAL LOVE

I’m committed to making your lives better… I’m committed to LOVE YOU into greatness! So, have a super day… don’t forget church at Destiny Family Center tomorrow morning at 10am!!